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Money, Money, Money
While the old adages provide us with these ideas, "money can't buy you love or
money can't buy you happiness"; it helps to know, that while we live in a society
that is motivated by the use or non-use of money, it is good to have your finances
in order. Some people believe that money is the root of all evil. In this section, we
would like to explore some ideas about the paper trail that we follow.
Money Has It's Place
It may be nice to believe we could survive without money, but realistically speaking
there is no way we can. Imagine for one moment to be totally independant of the day
to day rigor maroll of spending or expenditures or even going out to make money.
How peaceful a place could it be, to survive in the world without it? Bartering was a
cumbersome way to survive without it and returning to our animalistic ways is not
going to cut it. So let's face it, money whether in it's present form or in some other
form, is here to stay and plays an important part in our daily lives.
Money's Place in Relationships
In looking for a mate, it is truly unrealistic for someone to say, they are not concerned
about money or the other person's finances. We need money to survive in the day to
day living styles we have become accustom to. Whether it is to pay for our needs or
our likes and tastes, we have to have it. While our lifestyles differ widely, there is one
thing we have in common - we have to go forth in the world with money if we want to
live even remotely close to comfortable.
Your own comfort level is for you to determine.
So, if your present job and finances are enough for you to live with, then this is okay. Yet
remember, there are many factors to consider for the present and the future. And
everything is dependent upon another thing. Should I stay single and date or shall I get
married and have children, and what exactly is it that I can afford? Will I choose a mate
that has a job and is willing to help with our finances or one who is not employed or
employable and fill in the financial gap myself?
Then there is the aspect of whether or not both persons in a relationship are employed
having enough time for each other at a level they can enjoy together. Naturally, they would
have more money to spend than someone who is solely employed in a relationship, but this
is something to consider upfront, prior to getting into the relationship, as to what is best for
you.
Money and Where You Live
An online friend of mine finally found his way to South America, leaving the Netherlands,
in his own words, "for good". Why in the world would he do this? From all of his accounts
it is extremely inexpensive to live in the country he has choosen. As I recall, from all the
finance books I have read over the course of my lifetime, it is less expensive to live in
certain areas of the world. Where less than $50 a day can get you practically anything you
want and need. Wow, what a lucky guy, I say to myself.
Can you or should you do the same thing as he? Well, sometimes that depends on your
ability to relocate due to your working, family and personal habits. In my own case, I probably
could do the same, but due to my own preferrence, I don't think I would. But again, this is all
up to your own consideration and what you feel is best for you.
In Conclusion
Our personal finances can make or break us in many ways. While money can not buy us love,
it can help us to find it and determine whether or not the person we have found is right for us,
in all sorts of ways, "spiritually, physically and financially". I personally think that money is not
important, in my own relationship - my personal peace of mind is. Yet, you are the judge of
your own destiny and honestly, you always will be that person who controls what you say do and
feel. One more note about money and happiness - to me, it is a matter of what your own image
of yourself is and money has nothing to do with this.
Disclaimer
I am not a financial advisor or relationship counsellor, nor do I proport to be either. Any
information provided here is for your reading
purposes only and is not given as advise, nor do I claim that any info here is offered as advice. It
is for your own personal use to determine what you need or do not need as far as money goes.
As always good luck!
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